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Tomorrow is a BIG day for Marriage Equality in Mississippi

Mississippi is latest battleground in fight for same-sex marriage

Lawsuit seeks to strike down state’s ban on gay marriage

UPDATED 7:57 AM CST Nov 11, 2014

JACKSON, Miss. —Mississippi is the latest battle line in the fight for gay marriage.

A lawsuit is seeking to strike down the state’s ban on same-sex marriage, which could allow gay couples to wed as soon as this week.

Carla Webb and Joce Pritchett are among those who filed the lawsuit. They met and fell in love 11 years ago in Jackson. Last year, Carla surprised Joce with a September wedding in Maine.

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“Sept. 7, right? I’m terrible with dates. She has to remind me,” Pritchett said.

“I do,” Webb said.

Pritchett and Webb have a 6-year-old daughter and 2-year-old son. In Mississippi, their marriage in Maine is not recognized. They said that’s a threat to their family.

“When there’s nothing in writing, or that legally protects your kids from other people, it’s a frightening way to live,” Pritchett said.

The couple said fertility doctors in Mississippi refused to treat them, so an out-of-state fertility specialist transferred Webb’s eggs to Pritchett, who gave birth to the children.

“We didn’t understand at the time that when I carried them, that makes them legally mine, according to the state of Mississippi,” Pritchett said. “So they’re Carla’s biological children, but she has no legal rights to them at all.”

The couple wants the option for Webb to legally adopt her children.

A federal judge will hold a hearing Wednesday that could be historic for gay rights in Mississippi.

“The best case scenario is that he agrees with us that the laws should be struck down and that he allows his decision to take effect immediately,” said Rob McDuff, attorney for the plaintiffs.

Attorneys said a ruling in favor of the plaintiffs would force the state to recognize same-sex marriages performed out of state. It would also make it legal for gay couples to marry.

Carla Webb and Joce Pritchett

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Gay rights advocate Eddie Outlaw is hosting a reception Wednesday night, after the hearing. He said he’ll have officiants on-hand ready to perform a marriage ceremony, just in case.

“There will be people on-hand, ready, and if our county clerks are prepared to issue marriage licenses that day (gay) people will marry in Mississippi,” Outlaw said.

Both Gov. Phil Bryant and Attorney General Jim Hood are defendants in the lawsuit.

“The governor took an oath of office to defend the Constitution of the state of Mississippi and that’s what he intends to do,” said Knox Graham, a spokesman for the governor.

Jan Schaeffer, Hood’s spokeswoman, said the attorney general’s “court filings will speak for us.”

Several outcomes are possible Wednesday. But no matter what happens, marriage equality could be forced on Mississippi because the state is part of the Fifth Circuit Court of Appeals, along with Texas and Louisiana, and both states have pending appeals regarding same-sex marriages. Those cases will be heard the week of Jan. 5.

“Once there is a decision in the Fifth Circuit, in either the Louisiana case or the Texas case, or our case if it makes it there by that time, that decision will govern all three states,” McDuff said.

Webb and Pritchett said it’s a bit scary being the first to take this legal step in Mississippi, but it’s for the sake of their family.

“This is our family and we’re a loving family, and I think we’re loving people,” Webb said. “We just want to take care of our family. We don’t want to make other people do things they don’t want to do.”

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Gay Teen Punched For Kissing Boyfriend Sends Beautiful Message To Attacker

Gay Teen Punched For Kissing Boyfriend Sends Beautiful Message To Attacker

Gay Teen Punched For Kissing Boyfriend Sends Beautiful Message To Attacker

I’m a Gay Man Who Married a Straight Woman

I’m a Gay Man Who Married a Straight Woman

WeddingWhen religion makes a promise reality can’t keep.

“My eyes opened around 2:00 A.M. to the sound of a crowd screaming in the background. I had fallen asleep on the sofa and was, once again, being awakened by a late-night airing of The Jerry Springer Show. No sooner did I regain consciousness than depression wrapped itself around my psyche like a tight-fitting shoe. I let out a barely audible sigh. Sleep often eluded me; insomnia was now as much a part of my routine as brushing my teeth. I slept when I could.

“I hated the Jerry Springer show, but changing the channel required too much effort. “What are you going to tell our son?!” the distraught guest screamed at her husband, a transgendered cowboy who was on the show to come out to his wife and introduce his Harley-riding boyfriend. “Our son’s only ten,” she said, her voice growing quieter and more desperate. How could someone do that to his kid? I thought. And why on national TV? As I watched her bury her head in her hands, shaking with sobs, a tear formed in the corner of my own eye and slowly drifted over the bridge of my nose. With my own divorce imminent, my emotions were raw.

“It had only been a couple of months since my wife told me our marriage was over. We had been married for six and a half years and, though our marriage was rocky from the start, I never expected to be in this situation. I made a commitment for life. In addition, the thought of not seeing my daughters every day, putting them to bed at night and waking them up in the morning, was more than I could bear. I was devastated.

“Another roar from the raucous Springer crowd brought my attention back to the television. The husband’s cocky attitude made me angry. I didn’t know if the story was real, but my heart ached for his little boy just the same. This man projected the self-centered callousness I saw in my wife. I hated him. I hated her. I mustered the strength to find the remote and press the power button. The screen went dark.”

Excerpt from: Going Gay My Journey from Evangelical Christian Minister to Self-acceptance, Love, Life, and Meaning (CK Publishing, 2014)

We were young, in love, and believed that, with God on our side, the whole world had been laid out before us.

Like most couples, my wife and I, full of hope and promise, walked down the aisle of the church where we married. We were both dedicated, Evangelical Christians. I was in the ministry at the time. We were young, in love, and believed that, with God on our side, the whole world had been laid out before us.

But I was gay.

People frequently ask if my wife knew I was gay when she married me. The answer is a bit more complicated than a simple yes or no. I had gone through an ex-gay ministry, the most famous one in the country in fact, and was working for them when we got married. My wife and I believed I had been “healed” of my homosexuality, or was at least in the process of being healed. Our faith taught us to trust, pray and believe that God could do miraculous things.

It wasn’t too long into the marriage before we both began to sense something was wrong. There was an invisible wall that separated us emotionally. I wanted to believe it wasn’t there and denied it vehemently when she brought it up. We prayed harder. I had sufficiently suppressed my sexuality in the years leading up to the marriage. I believed my lack of sexual attraction meant God was healing me. What it really meant was that I had learned to subdue it to the point that I felt almost no sexual attractions at all. This gave me a sense of satisfaction, feeling as though my spirituality was higher than my carnal self. At the same time, I only felt half-alive.

I controlled practically everything around me, from how I dressed to how my house looked, to what I wanted others to perceive about me. It was exhausting. I detracted from intimacy by causing an argument, making a joke, or claiming to be too tired. The latter was mostly true since I put so much energy into pretending. In those rare times we had sex, it was more like building a fence than building a relationship. I was proud of the fact that I got through it, all the while hoping she didn’t notice how uncomfortable I felt.

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The emotional strain grew worse and the friendship that once held us together began to come undone.

By the time we were pregnant with our first child, the relationship had nearly reached a breaking point. Divorce, however, wasn’t an option because of our Christian commitment. We prayed harder. We read our Bibles. We faithfully attended church, Bible studies and Christian fellowship. The emotional strain grew worse and the friendship that once held us together began to come undone.

Nearly as miraculous as the virgin birth itself, she was pregnant again. We knew exactly when it happened, in a moment – a brief moment – of truce. The pressures of life weighed on us as we both became disillusioned with church. The lack of answers and spiritual guidance for our troubles left us blaming each other. I hated her.

Soon, there was nothing attractive about her at all and I felt my marriage – the unspoken golden promise of ex-gay ministry – was an albatross that kept me from finding God. But I was trapped. With divorce out of the picture, I prayed God would take her home. I could make it as a single dad with two daughters, but I couldn’t bring myself to divorce her. That would be a sin.

Still, I wasn’t prepared when she took the initiative and divorced me. I reeled from the pain of failure, wondering how a just God could allow me to go through so much turmoil in one life. Wasn’t fighting the sinfulness of homosexuality enough? Now divorce? Where was the Christian promise of abundant life Jesus talked about? Why didn’t the magic formula of Bible reading, prayer, fasting, worship and fellowship work? I was an ordained minister, of all things. If anyone knew how it worked, it was me.

For six years following my divorce, I sat mostly in silence, isolating myself from the rest of the world. I frequently stared out of the large pane glass window in the back of my house, trying to figure out what happened. Faith and sexuality had been neatly compartmentalized to keep me from going insane. Now they were merging into one. Questioning my beliefs felt blasphemous. They were the very foundation on which I made decisions, lived, breathed and raised my children. I simply could not be wrong about them. The Bible could not be wrong.

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It’s been 12 years since my divorce. My ex-wife and I have jointly worked together and raised our children, even spending holidays and birthdays together. Our beliefs are drastically different than they used to be. It’s difficult to go through decades of inner turmoil and come out completely unscathed. Most of what I once believed about Christianity, I now see as nothing more than religious fervor, organized into murky factions of the same basic ideology. We call these denominations. There are 34,000 of them. Which one is “right” is anybody’s guess. I no longer care. I don’t think God does either.

I believe that God is bigger than the minute details that too frequently occupy our thoughts.

The Evangelical Christian Church’s idea that God can change people from gay to straight is misguided at best and malicious at worse. Men, women and children have been sold the promise that people can and should change their sexual orientation, based on interpretations of canonized texts. When it doesn’t work, the person wasn’t trying hard enough, didn’t have enough faith, was never a Christian in the first place, didn’t do it right, didn’t do it long enough, didn’t have the right counseling, and on and on goes the list. It all boils down to religion making a promise reality can’t keep.

I believe that God is bigger than the minute details that too frequently occupy our thoughts. When I let go, I discovered life was never meant to be an uphill battle. Rather than simply trying to survive I can focus on helping others. That seems more Christian to me, and lines up perfectly with reality.

#BornPerfect

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Op-ed: LGBT Kids In The Bible Belt Need Our Help Why the south needs more shelters for LGBT youth.

Op-ed: LGBT Kids In The Bible Belt Need Our Help

Why the south needs more shelters for LGBT youth.

BY Joanne Spataro for The Advocate

October 27 2013 11:00 PM ET

I first stepped into my local LGBT youth assistance agency, Time Out Youth, in the fall of 2012. At the time, the non-profit organization had seen a 419 percent increase in homeless LGBT young people in need of temporary shelter in Charlotte, N.C.  I was there to write a story about why this was happening.

I talked with one 23-year-old, partially deaf, transgender man who told me how a staff member found him sleeping in his car and helped him find a place to stay through their host home program. He had to temporarily stay at the Vanlandingham Estate near the TOY office because there is no emergency shelter equipped to fairly accomodate LGBT people in Charlotte.

It’s not even just a problem in my hometown. There are barely any emergency LGBT shelter options in the entire Bible Belt. Per CenterLink, an online database of LGBT centers across the United States, only North Carolina, Georgia, Oklahoma and Tennessee provide some kind of emergency services for LGBT youth, even if it is not in the form of a stand-alone shelter. Mississippi, Louisiana and Kentucky do not even have LGBT centers.

There are no local statistics about the number of homeless LGBT youth in the Carolinas. Typically, surveyors do not ask the sexual orientation of homeless populations in North Carolina. Homeless LGBT youth, which makes up 20-40 percent of the general homeless population in the United States, are still an invisible population in my state. If you consider that San Francisco just started collecting demographic information about the sexual orientation of homeless people for the first time this year, who knows when North Carolina will start compiling that data?

There are a handful of options and partnerships in Charlotte for the LGBT youth who need help, although they are not always ideal. TOY offers temporary home services in the form of a host home program for young people over 18. Volunteers can host a young person based on a set criteria the youth must meet to enter and stay in the program. If there is no shelter space available, those between the ages of 11 and 20, can go to The Relatives, a shelter for all homeless youth with strong ties to TOY. If that is not available, local 24-hour French Bakery Amelie’s buys the youth a coffee, drops them off at 9 p.m., and picks them up at 8 a.m. the next morning to go back to the TOY offices to figure out the next step.

Some youth congregate at the Men’s Shelter of Charlotte. TOY executive director Rodney Tucker says LGBT youth band together there to avoid physical and verbal harassment in the shelter. For transgender individuals of color, particularly those whose legal gender markers are male but present as female, the Men’s Shelter is one of the few emergency housing options. The National Transgender Discrimination Survey, put together by the National Black Justice Coalition and National Center for Transgender Equality and the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, found that black transgender people, especially those whose gender marker is male when they present as female, have difficult experiences at emergency shelters. From the homeless individuals that tried to access the shelters, 40 percent were denied access altogether, 61 percent experienced harassment and 32 percent were physical assaulted at the shelter.

In the end, wouldn’t it be better if there were more stand-alone shelters to help the LGBT young people who simply need to feel welcomed and safe?

One of the rare stand-alone shelters for homeless LGBT people in the South is Lost-n-Found. Rick Westbrook founded it two years ago. To put it in context, a 2012 report estimated there were 900 LGBT homeless youth in Atlanta, but since the shelter’s opening, he’s helped 253 LGBT young people.

Westbrook’s community-funded  shelter houses six LGBT young people at one time. He says 50 percent of the LGBT people who come through the doors are lesbians and lesbian couples. Sixty percent of the homeless LGBT people he serves are African-American. He attributes the high number of African-American LGBT youth to the pressure in conservative churches to remain closeted.

A pending federal bill, if enacted, could add LGBT protections to the Reconnecting Homeless Youth Act. Representatives Mark Pocan and Gwen Moore, Wisconsin Democrats, introduced this bill to Congress on August 1. It would require all shelters that receive federal grants to obtain competency skills on how to serve LGBT youth and for the federal government to gather data about homeless LGBT youth. The bill has been waiting for consideration by a House committee since September. While it’s a great stride, it would not help Lost-n-Found and Time Out Youth, and other LGBT emergency shelter services or housing programs, that don’t receive federal funding.

I deeply support the addition of more emergency LGBT shelter services in the Bible Belt. I now volunteer at TOY, where I teach creative writing classes to the youth. I want to be there for them in any way I can until the day we get better emergency services in our state and surrounding area. I was lucky to be born to open-minded, loving parents who accepted me. They fed, clothed and housed me so I could graduate from college and start a career. I want the same human dignity for every young member of our community.

JOANNE SPATARO is a writer based in North Carolina.

Seeing marriage equality at work in the Bible Belt is heartening for this native Okie

Seeing marriage equality at work in the Bible Belt is heartening for this native Okie

By Mark Phariss

Several weeks ago, I read an article about two women, Kaitlyn Henson and Jessica Upton, tying the knot before the Comanche County District Judge Ken Harris in Lawton, Oklahoma. This news left me almost speechless, grasping to comprehend that same-sex couples can marry in Lawton while Vic, my partner of 17 years, and I still can’t marry in Texas.

See, I grew up in the 1960s and ’70s in Lawton, the third largest city in Oklahoma with a population then of about 75,000. Lawton was a conservative town, its largest employer being Fort Sill, a U.S. Army base.

Shortly after moving to Lawton in 1962, my twin sister, my younger brother and I were baptized at the First United Methodist Church. Later, our family joined St. Paul’s United Methodist Church, also in Lawton.

My mother, who read the Bible each morning, made sure my siblings and I attended church service every Sunday and vacation bible school every summer. At home, we regularly sang religious songs around the piano, including “Do Lord,” “Clap Your Hands,” and “Heaven is a Happy Place.”

A painting of Jesus hung in my bedroom and other religious knickknacks decorated our house. I read the Bible regularly and at one point in my youth I wanted to be a preacher. My paternal grandmother, Maggie Phariss, a stern but loving woman born in the late 1800s, encouraged me by saying she “always wanted a redheaded Baptist preacher in the family.” (I ultimately opted to be a redheaded lawyer instead.)

From at least age 6, I knew I was gay. And I didn’t want to be. I prayed almost nightly for the Lord to make me straight. Or, if He/She wouldn’t make me straight, I prayed not to wake up, to be taken in my sleep. Many nights I cried myself to sleep.

Although I was a relatively happy child, I struggled with the usual teenage angst. But mostly I struggled with the recognition I was gay. I simply couldn’t figure out why I was or how to change it.

I feared that, if I was found out, I would lose all my friends. “Fag” or “queer” were the worst insults one could hurl at another when I was growing up, and one of the two fights I ever had in my life (other than with my younger brother) was when a kid in junior high called me a faggot. I have no idea why he did that, and although I lost the fight, I won the war because no one in junior high or high school ever called me that again — at least not to my face.

A junior high classmate recently told me he and others resisted being friends with me because they suspected I might be gay and, in his case, he literally was afraid his father would beat him if I later turned out to be gay.

When I was 17, just a junior in high school, the former Miss Oklahoma Anita Bryant began her successful, and hateful, “save the children” campaign to repeal a Dade County, Florida ordinance that simply prohibited discrimination against gays in housing, employment and public accommodations. In 1978, the following year, the Oklahoma legislature passed a law allowing Oklahoma public schools to fire teachers for “advocating” homosexuality. Presumably, “advocating” included being openly gay or supporting equal rights for gays and lesbians. (The U.S. Supreme Court later ruled the law unconstitutional.)

As a person who has always followed the news, all of these developments scared and scarred me. I worried I would not be able to get a job or rent an apartment and would wind up homeless and penniless. In short, if I needed a reason to keep my sexual orientation a secret, I had them in spades. Even to this day, it is still perfectly legal in 29 states, including Oklahoma and Texas, to fire someone simply because of their sexual orientation.

When my parents died in 1986 within two months of each other, I was distraught. Only 26 years old, I was just out of law school and my parents were gone. Still deeply closeted, I honestly believed I had just lost the only people in the world who might still love me despite being gay.

It took me years to realize that God didn’t make me gay to hate me, that despite my repeated prayers — both as a teen and as a young adult — there was a reason God didn’t make me straight or take me in my sleep. I now know that there was nothing wrong with me, that being gay is a gift, and that it has made me far more compassionate, caring and open-minded than I might otherwise have been.

Now, 36 years after I graduated from high school in Lawton, gays and lesbians are able to marry in 32 states, including Oklahoma. Thanks are owed to Sharon Baldwin and Mary Bishop, the two lead Oklahoma plaintiffs who, along with their lawyers, bravely sued Oklahoma 10 years ago after the state passed a same-sex marriage ban. Because of that lawsuit, not only were they able to marry in Oklahoma, but also a same-sex couple was able to marry in my hometown where I never, ever dreamed one could.

Because of them — and the tireless work over decades of many advocates, allies and organizations too numerous to name — more gay and lesbian couples, including Vic and me, are one step closer to being able to marry in those states, like Texas, that still do not permit it. And more gay and lesbian children in Oklahoma and across this great nation will go to sleep tonight praying they will one day find the love of their life to marry, rather than that they won’t wake up.

Mark Phariss is a Plano, Texas corporate attorney. He and his partner of 17 years, Vic Holmes, are co-plaintiffs in the Texas case challenging the constitutionality of Texas’ ban on same-sex marriages, which is now pending before the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals.

What does Republican Senate takeover mean for LGBT issues?

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When the polls closed on Tuesday, the Republican takeover of the U.S. Senate made clear further advancement of LGBT rights in Congress became a lot more complicated — if not totally put on ice.

Shortly after 11:20 pm, the Associated Press reported Republicans won control of the Senate — presumably clearing the way for Sen. Mitch McConnell to become Senate Majority Leader — by picking up seats in Iowa, North Carolina, Colorado, Arkansas, West Virginia, Montana and South Dakota. Additionally, media outlets projected Republicans would win about 10 seats in the U.S. House.

Gregory T. Angelo, executive director of the Log Cabin Republicans, said the GOP gains will be a test for LGBT groups on whether they’re willing to work in a bipartisan fashion in the 114th Congress.

“This is really a time of choosing for LGBT advocates on the left,” Angelo said. “Do you support the left agenda, or do you actually support equal rights for Americans? Those who fall in the latter category are going to be the ones who are going to be come to the table with Republicans and find solutions, ways to pass things, like employment protections for LGBT individuals, that also reach consensus among Republicans.”

Angelo said he’ll meet with Log Cabin’s board of directors in January to discuss priorities, but one area of interest for which he’s seen a “tremendous appetite” among Republicans on Capitol Hill — even if they’re not on board with other pro-LGBT initiatives — is confronting human rights abuses against LGBT people overseas.

One bill that LGBT advocates may continue to push is the Employment Non-Discrimination Act, legislation that would bar employers from engaging in anti-LGBT bias in the workplace. There’s also interest in a comprehensive civil rights bill, which has been endorsed by the Human Rights Campaign, which would institute LGBT protections in employment, public accommodations, housing, credit, education and federal programs.

But Republican control may put the kibosh on these bills in the upcoming Congress, let alone versions of the legislation sought by LGBT advocates that would narrow the religious exemption along the lines of Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964.

Jeff Cook-McCormac, senior adviser to the pro-LGBT Republican group American Unity Fund, nonetheless said he sees a way forward if an “authentically bipartisan strategy” is applied.

“Instead of being contentious, we’re going to have to meet Republican legislators where they are and engage in thoughtful conversations about the time in which they have the level of comfort to move legislation forward,” Cook-McCormac said. “I think it presents both new challenges and new opportunities for the movement to advance these issues.”

An important part of this strategy, Cook-McCormac said, is making sure Republican members are carrying bills of interest to the LGBT community in consultation with Democratic allies in Congress.

“With regard to advancing the ball forward on an issue that garners broad bipartisan support like non-discrimination, I think there will be an increasing level of interest,” Cook-McCormac added.

Even with Democratic control of the Senate, the current Congress didn’t yield much pro-LGBT legislation. A version of ENDA passed the Senate on a bipartisan basis last year, but the House Republican leadership never brought up the measure.

The one exception to the inaction on LGBT legislation was reauthorization of the Violence Against Women Act, which included non-discrimination protections for victims of domestic violence based on sexual orientation and gender identity.

Jerame Davis, executive director of the LGBT arm of the AFL-CIO known as Pride at Work, predicted more of the same inaction on LGBT legislation when Congress reconvenes in January thanks to Republican victories on Election Day.

“I think it means more gridlock and no movement on LGBT issues in Congress,” Davis said. “We’ve been, as you know, waiting for something akin to the Employment Non-Discrimination Act to pass Congress for over 30 years and with a Republican-controlled Senate, we’re not likely to see movement. In fact, the last time that ENDA made any movement was in the Senate, and the Republican takeover means that bill is certainly dead in that house of Congress.”

With movement on pro-LGBT legislation in question, advocates may be looking elsewhere in arenas other than Congress to advance LGBT rights.

That includes action from Obama, whom advocates are pushing to lift the ban on transgender service in the U.S. military, and the courts, which are still issuing decisions on marriage equality and may soon interpret existing civil rights law to bar workplace discrimination based on sexual orientation.

Davis said LGBT advocates will increasingly turn to state legislatures to act on initiatives if federal pro-LGBT bills continue to languish in Congress.

“Labor contracts protect LGBT union workers even in states with no legislative protections, but that’s not always an option,” Davis said. “Until Congress can pass a clean version of ENDA without extraneous religious exemptions, we will have to look to state legislatures to pick up the slack.”

Anti-gay group pledges ‘religious liberty’ bill

One fear is that Republican control of Congress could lead to passage of anti-LGBT legislation, much like the Federal Marriage Amendment that was brought up for a vote, but failed, the last time the party had majorities in both chambers of Congress during the administration of George W. Bush.

While the rapid growth in support for marriage equality makes such an amendment unlikely, anti-gay groups may push for some kind of federal religious exemption bill that would allow individuals or officials to opt out of facilitating same-sex marriages throughout the country.

In an email blast to supporters on Monday, Brian Brown, president of the National Organization for Marriage, said immediately after the election his organization will “be meeting with the newly elected to discuss the upcoming term and what bills need to be advanced to protect marriage and religious liberty.” The plans, Brown said, include organizing for a 2015 “March for Marriage.”

Cook-McCormac said he doesn’t think anti-gay legislation along these lines will come up based on the Republican lack of interest in moving such bills in the House during the current Congress despite control of the chamber.

“I think there will still be reluctance by Republicans, as we’ve seen over the past two years in the House to advance legislation that in any way rolls back recent gains for LGBT Americans,” Cook-McCormac said. “Most Republican elected officials recognize that any efforts to turn the clock back on freedom for LGBT individuals is something that is extremely unpopular with the American people.”

That forecast for anti-gay bills is bolstered by recent history in Arizona, where Gov. Jan Brewer vetoed a “turn away the gay” bill that would have enabled businesses to discriminate against LGBT people following a media frenzy after the Arizona Legislature passed the bill.

Moreover, any anti-gay bill that comes up in the Senate could be subject by minority Democrats to filibuster, which would take 60 votes to overcome. These bills would also be likely voted down by pro-LGBT members of the Republican caucus, such as marriage-equality supporters Rob Portman (R-Ohio), Mark Kirk (R-Ill.) and Susan Collins (R-Maine). In the event that anti-gay legislation somehow passes Congress, LGBT advocates would look to President Obama for a veto.

Fred Sainz, vice president of communications for the Human Rights Campaign, said his organization views new Republican members of Congress as “an opportunity to educate and change hearts and minds.”

“LGBT equality isn’t a partisan issue,” Sainz said. “After all, LGBT people are born to all sorts of parents. We’re just as likely to be born to conservative Republican Baptist parents from Mississippi as we are to liberals from New York City. So it’s incumbent on us to reach out to individuals who we’ll hope to turn into allies and advocates.”

Will Republican House pass ENDA in lame duck?

The uncertainty about the upcoming Congress may also mean Democrats will take the opportunity of the lame duck session to move forward with pro-LGBT legislation while they remain in control of the Senate. Now that the election has taken place, lawmakers are due back in D.C. on Nov. 12 to finish their current session.

One idea sources close to ENDA have articulated is attaching the measure to a larger bill in the Senate, such as to the fiscal year 2015 defense authorization bill, to ensure it reaches Obama’s desk.

Cook-McCormac said Republican supporters of ENDA have “considerable interest” in seeing ENDA passed in the lame duck through one vehicle or another, but the limited timeline and few remaining “must-do” items in Congress to which ENDA could be attached present challenges.

“I think that it’s a little early to tell what the prospects are for something like that, but I do believe that over the next week, week-and-a-half, we’re going to have a much clearer idea of the type of things that might be possible in the lame duck, what the window looks like, and what types of efforts will be necessary to help that move forward,” Cook-McCormac said.

Angelo said he’s “hearing mixed messages” on whether passage of ENDA is a possibility during the lame duck session of Congress.

“I’m hearing Democrats in the Senate are hesitant to attach ENDA to something like NDAA reauthorization, and I’m hearing Republicans in the House are leaning toward attaching ENDA to NDAA reauthorization,” Angelo said.

Angelo identified Rep. Chris Gibson (R-N.Y.) as an ENDA supporter who would be open to passing ENDA as an amendment to the defense authorization bill, and Sen. Jeff Merkley (D-Ore.) as a Democrat who “did have an appetite” for such a strategy. Their offices didn’t respond to the Washington Blade’s request for a comment on the issue.

In a July interview with the Washington Blade, Rep. Charlie Dent (D-Pa.), an ENDA co-sponsor, said he wanted to see the legislation passed as an amendment to a larger vehicle, but at that time wasn’t sure which legislation would be appropriate for ENDA.

An aide for outgoing Sen. Tom Harkin (D-Iowa), chair of the Senate Health, Education, Labor & Pensions Committee, said the senator backs “any effort to pass” ENDA when asked if he supports attaching it as an amendment to the defense authorization bill.

Any attempt to move ENDA in lame duck may encounter opposition from LGBT advocates because it would likely be the Senate-passed version of the legislation. That version has a religious exemption that would allow religious-affiliated businesses to continue to discriminate against LGBT workers in non-ministerial positions, unlike protections afforded to other groups under existing civil rights law. Many pro-LGBT organizations, including the American Civil Liberties Union and the National LGBTQ Task Force, have dropped support from this version of ENDA.

“Rather than getting into those fights, I want after the election to see if it’s something that is feasible during the lame duck session, and then we can talk strategy,” Angelo said. “But there are definitely those mixed signals that I’m getting.”

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Distorted Love: The Toll of Our Christian Theology on the LGBT Community

Distorted Love: The Toll of Our Christian Theology on the LGBT Community

At religious liberty conference, pastors told to hold the line on gay relationships

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

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Christopher Yuan leads a prayer during the Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission National Conference, Tuesday, Oct. 28, 2014, in Nashville, Tenn. Southern Baptists organized the three-day event to strengthen the resolve of Christians preaching the increasingly unpopular view that gay relationships are sinful.

NASHVILLE, Tenn. — More than a thousand evangelical pastors and others – gathered for a three-day conference to steel the resolve of Christians who preach that gay relationships are sinful – were asked a simple question: How many live in a state that recognizes same-sex marriage?

Hands rose all across the convention hall.

“This moral revolution is happening at warp speed,” said the Rev. Albert Mohler, president of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary. “This is a real challenge to us on biblical authority.”

Speakers at the event said they understood they were on the losing end of the culture war on marriage. But they were prepared to be the voice of a moral minority because gay marriage is a “rejection of God’s law,” according to Mohler. He said evangelicals needed to have “a lot of agonizing conversations” about how to move forward.

The conference, called “The Gospel, Homosexuality and the Future of Marriage,” is taking place not only against the backdrop of expanding gay marriage, but also amid a small but vocal movement of evangelicals who publicly advocate greater acceptance of gays.Several of the advocates attended the conference and held behind-the-scenes meetings with evangelical leaders to seek common ground.

“My goal here is to meet as many people as I can who disagree with me and talk over coffee,” said Justin Lee, founder of the Gay Christian Network, during a break at the opening session Monday. His organization brings together Christians who differ over whether gays faithful to the Bible should remain celibate or can have same-sex relationships.

Southern Baptist leaders said they would be expressing their views in a way that was humble and compassionate, but rooted in the theological belief that marriage is only between a man and a woman. Each participant was given a bagful of books and pamphlets, with titles such as, “Love Into Light: The Gospel, The Homosexual and The Church,” and “Loving My (LGBT) Neighbor,” meant to help pastors articulate their stand against same-sex relationships.

Mohler, the most prominent Southern Baptist intellectual, said from the stage that he was wrong years ago when he said same-sex attraction could be changed.

The Rev. Russell Moore, director of the Southern Baptist’s Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission, which organized the conference, drew applause when he condemned anti-gay bullying and called on Christians to address the problem of homelessness for gay and lesbian youth as “a human dignity issue.” He said parents shouldn’t shun their gay children.

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Rev. Russell Moore, left, director of the Southern Baptist’s Ethics and Religious Liberty Commission, leads a discussion during the group’s national conference Tuesday, Oct. 28, 2014, in Nashville, Tenn. Southern Baptists organized the three-day event to strengthen the resolve of Christians preaching the increasingly unpopular view that gay relationships are sinful.

“You’ve been given a mission of reconciliation,” Moore told the audience. “Jesus is not afraid to speak with truth, but Jesus is not shocked by people or disgusted by people.”

However, some speakers took a harder line. Erik Stanley of the Alliance Defending Freedom, the law firm defending Christian business owners and others who refuse to serve gay weddings, said it was a myth that the 1998 murder of Matthew Shepard in Laramie, Wyoming, was a hate crime. He argued gays wanted “unfettered sexual liberty” while silencing all dissent.

Most of the morning sessions Tuesday featured Christians such as Rosaria Butterfield who had been attracted to members of the same-sex but say they were now married to someone of the opposite sex or had overcome their attractions.

Butterfield said evangelicals need to “repent of anti-gay rhetoric,” and befriend gays and lesbians instead of trying to “fix” them.(Moore said Southern Baptists do not support “reparative therapy” for gays based on psychological counseling and do not believe people can necessarily eliminate same-sex attraction. But he said the denomination believes Gospel teaching can help people live chastely while being attracted to people of the same gender.)

Matthew Vines, author of “God and the Gay Christian,” has drawn more than 800,000 views on YouTube for his lecture challenging the theology that drives evangelical opposition to same-gender relationships.

He said he was encouraged that some speakers have been “approaching the conversation with more respect and sensitivity than has often been the case in the past.” But he said their stand on gay relationships still “causes serious harm to LGBT people.”

Vines met privately with Mohler, who had written an e-book response to Vines, titled “God and the Gay Christian?” Both men said the meeting was a cordial discussion of Scripture and they planned to stay in touch. Separately, about two dozen Christian advocates for gay acceptance and evangelical leaders who participated in the conference also met privately Monday night. Participants agreed they would not comment afterward.

In an interview, Mohler said he expected to see some evangelical churches splitting off to accept gay relationships in years ahead. Evangelicals in the millennial generation, ages 18-33, are twice as likely as their elders to support same-sex marriage, according to a survey released in February by the Public Religion Research Institute.

Southern Baptists last month cut ties with a California congregation, New Heart Community Church, whose pastor accepted same-sex marriage after his son came out as gay. But Moore believes only a small minority of evangelicals will come to accept same-sex relationships as they struggle with expressing their opposition in the current climate.

“I’m not worried about churches in our tradition conforming to the culture. I’m worried about them not effectively engaging the culture,” Moore said in an interview. “We have to be able to speak with conviction about what we believe. We have to speak to people.”

Campaign for Southern Equality v. Bryant

Campaign for Southern Equality v. Bryant

Mississippi’s Ban on Same-Sex Marriage Challenged in Federal Court; Attorney Roberta Kaplan Brings Suit on Behalf of Two Couples and the Campaign for Southern Equality

A federal challenge to Mississippi’s law banning same-sex marriage was filed today in the Southern District of Mississippi on behalf of two same-sex couples, – Andrea Sanders and Rebecca Bickett, and Jocelyn Pritchett and Carla Webb – and the Campaign for Southern Equality (CSE). Campaign for Southern Equality, et. al. v. Bryant, et. al. challenges the constitutionality of marriage laws in Mississippi that ban marriage between same-sex couples and deny recognition of same-sex marriages performed out of state.

Lawsuit documents are available at: http://bit.ly/1ybt7Ac

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Mississippi’s gay marriage ban challenged in federal court